In this new podcast, Dr. Jordan makes the argument that your daughter wants and needs you to remain an influence in her life now and forever, and he offers many ideas about how to remain close and an influence into adulthood.
Key points: Dr. Jordan describes the phenomenon of Touch Points and its impact on your daughters moods and emotions;
He also discusses the necessity of parents not reacting to their daughter’s mood swings
Become or remain a nonjudgmental listener; remember that you don’t have to agree with her to be a valuable sounding board
Be honest with how you are feeling and what you want.
Share your stories of your experiences at her age and how your relationship with your parents changed; mistakes your parents may have made
Spend time where the only purpose is just to be with each other
Remember that she still does need you & wants to remain connected unless you’ve behaved badly
Previous related podcast by Dr. Jordan: Raising amazing daughters: A Primer For DadsFor more information about all of the services Dr. Jordan provides for girls and their parents, visit his website at www.drtimjordan.com
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